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#1 Shell Camp Owerri, Nigeria
Zitsimikizo Zabwino Kwambiri Zopambana Mayeso: Si zachilendo kukhala ndi nkhawa, nkhawa, kapena nkhawa pamene D-day ya mayeso anu ikuyandikira.
Makamaka pamene muli pampanipani kwambiri, zingakhale zothandiza kusintha kaonedwe kanu ndi kaonedwe kanu mwa kubwereza mawu otsimikizira nokha nthawi zonse.
Mothandizidwa ndi malangizo otsatirawa otsimikizira kuti mupambana mayeso, mutha kusintha malingaliro anu oyipa ndikuchita bwino pamayeso anu.
Kuphunzira ndikofunikira pakukula kwamaphunziro komanso kwamunthu.
Kuti mukhale wodzidalira, m'pofunika kuphunzira momwe mungaphunzirire bwino. Zingathandizenso kuchepetsa mavuto ena omwe amabwera ndi nthawi yomaliza komanso mayesero.
Kukhala ndi moyo wocheza, kuchita homuweki, ndi kuwerengera mayeso nthawi imodzi kungapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu bwino.
Komanso, izi zitha kukhudza thanzi la wophunzira ngakhale ali ku koleji, zomwe zitha kukhala zoyipa kwa thanzi lawo lakuthupi komanso lamaganizidwe.
Chifukwa chake, zotsimikizira za positivity ndi zida zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi malingaliro aliwonse oyipa omwe amayesa kulowa m'malingaliro anu tsiku ndi tsiku.
Amapangidwa kuti akuthandizeni kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika monga kuda nkhawa, kudzikayikira, komanso kukangana.
Mutha kusintha kudzidalira kwanu ndikudzilimbikitsa kuti mukhale mtundu wabwino kwambiri womwe mungathe kukhala nawo pochita izi.
Iwo sali matsenga, kunena zoonekeratu.
Werengani zambiri:
Mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe anu, komanso moyo wanu wonse, zitha kulumikizidwa ndi kupambana kwanu pamaphunziro.
Zitsimikizo ndi zida zosunthika zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pazinthu zosiyanasiyana. Muli ndi mwayi wosankha, kutengera zomwe zimakuchitirani zabwino:
Ndikofunikiradi kukhala ndi mphamvu zowongolera malingaliro omwe amadutsa m'mutu mwanu. Kuti mukwaniritse cholinga ichi, muyenera kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro pazotsimikizira zomwe mumadzibwereza nokha.
Njira yosavuta ndiyo kudzikumbutsa nthawi zonse za mawuwo mpaka mutaphunzitsa ubongo wanu kuvomereza kuti ndi zoona.
Potsirizira pake zidzakupangitsani kuti muphunzire zambiri mwa kukulitsa chidaliro chanu mu luso lanu ndi kukupatsani chikhulupiliro chokulirapo cha kuthekera kwanu kuchita bwino. Ngati mutayesetsa kuphunzira, magiredi anu adzayenda bwino.
Musanagwiritse ntchito zitsimikiziro zabwino, pendani momwe malingaliro owononga angakukhudzireni kukhala oyenera.
Ganizirani za kulemba malingaliro aliwonse oyipa omwe amangobwerabe m'mutu mwanu kumapeto kwa semester ikuyandikira.
Izi zitha kukhala ngati kusatsimikizika kulikonse, kudzidzudzula, kapena malingaliro oyipa omwe mungakhale nawo pakali pano.
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti n'kwachibadwa kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo ena omwe ali abwino komanso otsutsa.
Ngati mukupeza kuti muli ndi maganizo olakwika kapena osuliza, yesetsani kusaweruza ngati maganizo amenewo ali oona kapena ayi.
Malingaliro amachitika paokha nthawi zambiri, kotero ndikofunikira kuyang'ana mwachidwi komanso kuphunzira m'malo moganiza.
Mukazindikira mndandanda wanu, mutha kuugwiritsa ntchito kuti muzindikire mitu yomwe ikubwerezedwa. Ganizirani ngati malingalirowa ali opindulitsa ndi ofunikira kwa inu kapena ngati akukulepheretsani mwanjira ina.
Njira yabwino yoyambira kuchita zotsimikizira ndikuyamba kuzindikira malingaliro aliwonse oyipa omwe tingakhale nawo, kenako kuvomereza ndikufufuza malingalirowo.
Zitsimikizo zopambana mayeso zimakhala ndi chikoka chachikulu akagwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe amatipangitsa kumva kukhala amphamvu.
Ganizirani za kulimbikitsa zonena zanu pofufuza zolemba zakale kapena kubwera ndi malingaliro owonjezera ndi anzanu.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kudzimva kukhala wamphamvu kwambiri, mungayese kunena chinachake chogwirizana ndi mawu akuti “Ndine wapadera ndi wofunika” osati “ndine woyenerera.”
Khalani ndi malingaliro otseguka ndikuyesera njira zosiyanasiyana zopangira mawu anu panthawi yonseyi.
Zitsimikizo zabwino zimakhala zogwira mtima kwambiri mukamayang'ana zomwe mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse kapena kukwaniritsa pakadali pano osati zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa mtsogolo.
Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yamakono muzotsimikizira zanu kuti muwonetsetse kuti zakhazikika pano ndi pano.
Mwachitsanzo, m’malo monena kuti, “Ndidzakhala wathanzi komanso wokangalika pambuyo pomaliza,” ndi bwino kunena mawu ngati, “Ndili wathanzi komanso wokangalika.”
Zitsimikizo zimakhala zamphamvu kwambiri pamene mawu akulankhulidwa mokweza nthawi zonse. Ndizotheka kuti ngati muwapanga kukhala gawo lokhazikika lazochita zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku, adzakhala ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu.
Tengani zochita zanu zam'mawa monga chitsanzo: mukamavala, tengani kamphindi kuti muyang'ane pagalasi ndikubwereza mawuwo mokweza.
Mutha kuzilembanso pazolemba pambuyo pake ndikuziyika m'malo ofunikira komwe mumaziwona pafupipafupi. Mutha kuziyika pagalasi lanu, firiji, desiki, kapena chitseko.
Tengani kamphindi pang'ono kuti muchepetse, pumani mozama, ndi kubwereza maumboniwo mokweza pamene muwawona.
Nthawi zambiri, zitsimikiziro zabwino zimaperekedwa ngati mawu akuti "Ine".
Chifukwa chakuti amatitheketsa kusintha maganizo oipa n’kuyamba kusonyeza kuti ndife anthu otani kapena amene timafuna kukhala, nthawi zambiri amatchedwa ziganizo zosonyeza kuti ndife ndani.
Chifukwa cha ichi, ndikofunikira kuyambitsa chitsimikiziro chilichonse ndi mawu akuti "Ine" kapena "Ndine." Mwachitsanzo, "Ndili ndi chikhulupiriro mwa ine ndekha" kapena "Ndiyenera kuchita izi."
Werengani zambiri:
M'masiku otsogolera mayeso anu, apa pali zotsimikizira zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kukuthandizani kuti mukhale otsimikiza komanso okonzeka.
Ndinu omasuka kusankha imodzi kapena zingapo, kapena mutha kusankha kuti mulembe zanu.
Mukamagwiritsa ntchito zitsimikiziro zabwino munyengo ino, bwerezani nokha kangapo patsiku, ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito musanagone, zitha kukhala zamphamvu kwambiri pokuthandizani kupeza zomwe mukufuna.
Chiphaso cha holo ndi chiphaso kapena chizindikiro chosonyeza wophunzira kuti amaloledwa kutuluka m’kalasi pamene maphunziro akupita.
Ngati wophunzira wagona mochedwa kuphunzira, mosakayika angaiwale zimene anaphunzira pa mayeso. Mphamvu yosunga ubongo imakula ndipo chidziwitso chimakhazikika mozama kwambiri ndi pulogalamu yophunzirira nthawi zonse komanso kukonzanso koyenera.
Mzere umodzi ukufotokoza mwachidule chinsinsi cha chipambano: Kudzifunsa mafunso, kupeza mayankho, kubwerera m’mbuyo ndi kuŵerenganso zimene simunazimvetse, ndi kudziyesanso nokha mpaka mutadziŵa bwino zimene mwadziŵa ndiyo njira yabwino yochitira bwino kusukulu.
Ophunzira amalemba mayankho awo ku mafunso ofunsidwa ndi aphunzitsi awo kumapeto kwa kalasi kapena phunziro pamapepala otuluka. Aphunzitsi amatha kuwona mwachangu momwe ophunzira amamvetsetsa bwino zomwe zili ndi mayeso afupiafupi, osakhazikika.
Nkhawa za mayeso si zachilendo. Zakhalapo kuyambira pomwe anthu otukuka adayamba kuphatikiza dongosolo la maphunziro lokhazikika m'mapangidwe ake.
Zizindikiro ndi zotsatira za nkhawa zamayeso zakula kwambiri padziko lapansi zomwe mliri wasiya.
M'dziko lino, ophunzira akumana ndi kusintha kwakukulu pamaphunziro pafupifupi usiku umodzi. Mwachitsanzo, maphunziro a pa intaneti asanduka chizolowezi chatsopano.
Chodabwitsa; Ndikukhulupirira kuti nkhaniyi yayankha funso lanu.
Malangizo a Mkonzi:
Ngati mwapeza kuti nkhaniyi ndi yabwino, chonde gawanani ndi mnzanu.