Idilesi Yomzimba
#1 Shell Camp Owerri, Nigeria
Ukubeka ubuzwe ngokwendlela obungenamtsalane ngayo kunokuba lucelomngeni kodwa kungenzeki.
Abantu belizwe elithile banokugqalwa njengabangathandekiyo ukuba ubuso babo ngokuqhelekileyo abuthandeki kwaye ngokwemvelo bungathandeki.
Noko ke, kuyaqondwa ukuba umlinganiselo wendlela umntu akhangeleka engathandeki ngayo udlulela ngaphaya kweempawu zobuso njengoko nezinye izinto kufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa kusenziwa isigwebo.
Eli nqaku liza kuxubusha ngezinye izinto ezinokwenza umntu angabi nomtsalane kangako ngaphambi kokuba anike uludwe lwezona zizwe zingenamdla ehlabathini.
Nazi ezona zinto zintathu zicinezela kakhulu ezenza ukuba abantu bacinge ukuba abo basuka kwizizwe ezithile babi:
Abantu belizwe abanobuso obungazinikiyo iimvakalelo ezifundekayo ngokuqhelekileyo babonwa njengababi. Bajongwa njengabantu abangqongqo ngokwemvelo.
Abo bathwaxwa livumba lomzimba ngokuqhelekileyo banokuthiwa babi. Oku kubangelwa ikakhulu kukungaphumeleli ukulandela imikhwa elungileyo yococeko lomzimba.
Abantu abathwaxwa ziimeko zomzimba ezinjengokutyeba, impilo enkenenkene yamazinyo, kunye nezinye iziphene ngokwasemzimbeni ziya kuthathwa njengento embi.
Imilinganiselo eqwalaselwayo xa kulinganiswa ukuba indoda intle iyahluka kakhulu ngokweendawo.
Oku kungenxa yokuba umbono womtsalane wamadoda kumazwe amaninzi uvavanywa ngokusekwe kwinkcubeko, imigaqo yentlalo, kunye nezinye izinto.
Nazi ezinye zezinto ezinokuthi ziqwalaselwe ngabantu xa bejonga umtsalane wamadoda:
Ukwakhiwa komzimba okanye inkangeleko yomzimba wendoda kumazwe anjengeUnited States igqalwa njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekumiseleni inqanaba lomtsalane wendoda.
Noko ke, kumazwe afana neItali, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Kunoko, kugxininiswa ngakumbi kwisitayile seenwele zendoda nakwifashoni yabo.
Ibala lolusu ngomnye uthunywashe ophambili ochaphazela ngokubanzi isigqibo somntu xa ehlola indlela enomtsalane ngayo nayiphi na indoda.
Oku kuyabonakala kumazwe afana ne-US, uninzi lwabaphumeleleyo kukhuphiswano oluhlala lubonakala lungabamhlophe.
Oku kuyenzeka ngokumangalisayo nakumazwe afana neBrazil aneentlanga ezixubeneyo, amadoda amhlophe abonwa enomtsalane kunabantsundu.
Ukongezelela, kwilizwe elinjengoMzantsi Afrika, elinabantu abaninzi abantsundu, kuyaqondwa ukuba imodeli emhlophe ikhethwa ngaphezu kwabantsundu.
Kumazwe anjengeOstreliya, imilinganiselo yokuhlola ukuba nomtsalane kwamadoda iye yaphakama, nto leyo engqina isizathu sokuba amadoda amaninzi esebenzisa utyando lokuhombisa ukuze aphucule inkangeleko yawo.
Ukusuka kwimisebenzi yempumlo ukuya kwiinkqubo zokwandisa umthondo, ukufumana umsebenzi wokuthambisa owenziwe eOstreliya yinto eqhelekileyo ngoku.
I-Globalization yi-catalyst etshintshe yonke into esingqongileyo. Imise kakhulu indlela esivavanya umtsalane ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:
Ukudityaniswa kwehlabathi kuyichaphazele kakhulu indlela abantu abavavanya ngayo ubuhle beqela labantu ngokuziphatha okuhle okwahlukeneyo.
Ngaphambili ngoku, abantu abaninzi babehlola ubuhle ngokusekelwe kwiimpawu zabantu abahlala kwindawo ethile.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kutshintshile ngenxa yokudityaniswa kwehlabathi, ngoku abantu bavavanya ubuhle ngaphandle kokuthambekela kwizinto ezifana nombala wolusu, ukumila komzimba kunye neempawu zobuso.
Ukudityaniswa kwehlabathi kwenze ukuba amajelo eendaba ezentlalo afikelele wonke umntu, nokuba yinxalenye yehlabathi ahlala kuyo.
Ngoku kunokwenzeka ukuba amagqala kwezolonwabo kwimimandla ebikade ingaqatshelwa ngaphambili ukuba afikelele kwizigidi zabantu ehlabathini lonke.
Lo mba uyitshintshe kakhulu indlela abantu abajonga ngayo abantu abanomtsalane, njengoko abantu abaninzi ngoku bebona ngokucacileyo ukuba abantu abaninzi abahle ehlabathini lonke abekho eMelika naseYurophu kuphela.
Umzekelo, ukuqhubela phambili kweNollywood kule minyaka idlulileyo kwenze abantu abaninzi bazazi ezinye zeenkwenkwezi ezintle kumzi bhanyabhanya waseNigeria.
Oku bekungeke kwenzeke kwixesha elidlulileyo kuba bekungekho intanethi.
Ihlabathi lefashoni lichaphazele kakhulu imigangatho yangoku yokukhanga.
Njengoko iinkampani zobuhle kumazwe angaphandle ngoku zihamba kwihlabathi jikelele, ziqinisekisa ukuba uyilo lwazo luhambelana nolwamkelo lwemarike ekujoliswe kuyo.
Oku kukhokelele ekwamkelweni kweempawu ezininzi zenkcubeko kuyo nayiphi na imveliso abayenzayo.
Umzekelo, izindlu zefashoni zamazwe aphesheya eGhana ziphuhlisa uyilo olubonisa izinto ze-Ankara, ezinomtsalane kakhulu kwintengiso.
Ngenxa yako konke oku, abantu abaninzi ngoku banenketho yokukhetha iimveliso ezihambelana neminqweno yabo yefashoni.
Ukudityaniswa kwehlabathi kuye kwashukumisela abantu ukuba babonakalise ubuhle ngendlela ebakholisayo.
Abantu abaninzi ngoku banxiba ngokweemvelaphi zabo zenkcubeko kwaye basebenzisa ifashoni ukubonisa imvelaphi yabo yenkcubeko nokuba bayazingca ngemvelaphi yabo.
Oku kube nefuthe kwimigangatho yokutsala umdla kwihlabathi liphela.
IUnited Kingdom igqalwa njengesazulu sabanye babona bantu bangenamdla ehlabathini.
Nangona kunzima ukukukholelwa oku, ngakumbi kuba abantu baseBritane banentetho ethandekayo, ulusu olusulungekileyo, kunye namazinyo aphucuke kakuhle, yinyani.
Ngokophononongo lwe-intanethi, kukholelwa ukuba i-9% kuphela yamadoda ase-UK anomtsalane, nto leyo eyothusayo kwilizwe lasekhaya elifana noDavid Beckham, omnye wabadlali abashushu kakhulu emhlabeni.
IPolish lelinye ilizwe kolu luhlu lwezona zizwe zincinci zinomtsalane kwihlabathi liphela.
Nangona kunjalo, kukholelwa ukuba iziphumo zophando ezibuyisele umlinganiselo we-9% nje yamadoda esixekweni njengento embi ngenxa yezinye izinto ezifana nokungacoceki komzimba endaweni yeempawu zobuso.
Bambalwa abantu abanokuthi bajonge ukongezwa kweTurkey kolu luhlu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukungatsali kwabo kujongwa njengento enkulu kuba eli lizwe liziko lempucuko eliqela, okuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo ukusasazwa kwazo ngokobuhlanga.
Uninzi lwabantu baseTurkey bamnyama kwaye banezidlele kunye namashiya angabonakaliyo.
Ngokungamangalisiyo, isiphumo sophando sibabuyisele phakathi kwabona bantu bakumgangatho ophantsi, abahle kakhulu emhlabeni.
AmaJamani ubukhulu becala aneempawu ze-angular, ibala elilungileyo, kunye nezakhelo ezinkulu, nto leyo engaqhelekanga kubantu baseYurophu.
Nangona kunjalo, isibakala sokuba uninzi lunenkangeleko yobuso efanayo kunye nobuso bendalo obuvusa uvuyo oluncinane seso sizathu sokuba behleli kolu luhlu lwezizwe ezingentle kangako kwihlabathi liphela.
Abantu baseKorea baphakathi kwabona bantu babi kakhulu emhlabeni, kunye ne-18% kuphela yamadoda abo athathwa njengamahle kwaye ngokungekho i-15% yabasetyhini babo abalinganiswe njengabahle. Oku kuphakathi kwawona asezantsi kumazwe aseAsia.
IJapan lilizwe abambalwa abanokuthi baphikisane ngokuchasene nokubandakanywa kwalo kolu luhlu.
AmaJapan anesakhelo somzimba obhityileyo kwaye anobude obuphakathi, kwaye ngokumangalisayo, uninzi lwabafazi babo abanamdla ngokwendalo kumadoda avela kwamanye amazwe.
Kuqondwa kuphando ukuba malunga ne-15% yamadoda aseJapan abonwa ebukekayo, kunye ne-85% ethathwa njengembi, ebonisa ukuba eli lizwe linelona nani liphezulu labantu ababi kwihlabathi.
I-Ireland yongezelela ukothusa ngakumbi kolu luhlu lwezona zizwe zincinci zinomtsalane kwihlabathi kunalo naliphi na elinye ilizwe. Oku kungenxa yokuba uninzi lweenkwenkwezi zokuzonwabisa zineengcambu zaseIreland.
Nangona kunjalo, udumo lwabantu abadumileyo olufunyanwa ngabantu abaninzi baseIreland alukhange lube nempembelelo kwindlela abantu ababukeka benomtsalane ngayo.
Kuyaqondwa kuphando ukuba yi-9% kuphela yabantu baseIreland abathathwa njengabahle, inani elothusayo lelizwe eliyindawo yokuzalwa yeenkwenkwezi ezishushu ezifana noPierce Brosnan kunye noColin Farrell.
AmaIndiya ajongwa njengabantu abaninzi abangathandekiyo ngokwendalo.
Nangona iinkwenkwezi ezininzi ze-Bollywood zenza eli bango libukeke lisisidenge, uphando lwe-intanethi olwenziwe kutshanje luxhasa into yokuba amaNdiya awabheneli abantu abaninzi.
Ngokutsho kophando, abantu baseSweden banomtsalane ngakumbi kunabo bonke abanye abantu emhlabeni.
AmaFrentshi, amaJamani kunye namaDatshi ngabona bantu bahlonitshwayo ehlabathini.
Abasetyhini baseJapan banolusu olunomtsalane kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ulusu lwazo kuthiwa lugudileyo, lucacile, kwaye luselula kakhulu, olubangelwa kukutya okunevithamini eninzi abakugcinayo.
Abantu baseOstreliya ngabona bantu banobubele emhlabeni. Amanye amazwe anabantu abanobuhlobo yiNew Zealand noMzantsi Afrika.
Kusenokuba lucelomngeni ukufumanisa ukuba ngawaphi amazwe angawona angathandekiyo, kuba loo nto ithandwa ngomnye umntu isenokulizonda.
Ukuba uninzi lwabantu belizwe baneempawu ezingathandekiyo kunye neempawu zobuntu ezibi, sinokuthi ilizwe alinabo abantu abahle.
Noko ke, kuyavunywa ngokubanzi ukuba iimpawu ezingezizo iimpawu zobuso, ezinjengokumila kwebala lolusu, ivumba lomzimba, iziphene, noxinezeleko, zifak’ isandla ekubeni umntu angabi mtsalane.
Ungayithabathi ngokobuqu into yokuba isizwe sakho imvelaphi ikuluhlu olungasentla, njengoko usenokuba nomtsalane ngakumbi kubantu abasuka kwiindawo ezithile zehlabathi kunabanye.
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